Have you ever sat on a confession box at a church, worrying if the priest would judge you? Do you think he doesn't judge you? He is human, of course, he judges you. It is one thing to say we don't judge, it is another to actually not judge. All of us fall short of the promise. Forget others, I judge myself too, all the time. I fall short of being someone 'I aspire to be'. It is a constant struggle.